THE CAUSES OF UNSATISFACTION OF MARRIED COUPLES WITH MARRIAGE

The paper covers the consideration of the issues of family conflicts such as the identification of a number of reasons causing the dissatisfaction of married couples with family relations. At the current stage of social and economic development of Russia, it is very important to save both the traditional family values and family integrity that is the essential part of a human world responding to various changes taking place within the social life, economy, politics, and moral state of the society. The authors specify basic predictive parameters, which give the ability to examine a family and build the vector for further counseling and family relations correction: the most conflictive spheres of family relations, the degree of agreement (disagreement) in conflict situations, conflict intensity in a couple. The state of a modern family is characterized by the transformation of family roles, which often leads to the conflicts. The authors pay special attention to the manifestation of agreement or disagreement in the situations of family conflict characterizing the passivity or activity of gender-role behavior of married partners when expressing personal attitude to the circumstances. Using the results of the study, it is determined that families with different conflict intensity are characterized by the contradictory areas of disagreement and disputes. The paper specifies the distinctive features of conflictogenic areas of the matrimonial relationship between men and women. The obtained data identify some reasons of poor matrimonial relationship: financial disagreements; jealousy manifestation; domination of one of the married partners; disagreements in the sphere of communication with relatives and friends; dissatisfaction of need for positive emotions, mutual assistance, and cooperation; various needs for recreation and leisure.